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The Barn on Gray House Farm

4.9 ★★★★★ 101 Google reviews · Barn wedding venue in Hulbert, Oklahoma

Weddings On-site lodging Climate-controlled Elopements

Farm-style event venue on 10 acres with mature woodland and countryside views, plus overnight rentals.

Plan your tour

  • Capacity couples mention 100–125-guest events in reviews — ask the venue for their stated maximum
  • Lodging on-site lodging comes up in reviews and the venue's own info — ask how many beds and whether the wedding-night stay is included
  • Climate climate-controlled barn — comfortable for a July dance floor or a December ceremony
  • Today see hours ·
  • Phone (918) 383-0660
  • Website grayhousebarn.com — most venues book tours right on their site

Hours

Monday 7 AM–12 AM
Tuesday 7 AM–12 AM
Wednesday 7 AM–12 AM
Thursday Open 24 hours
Friday Open 24 hours
Saturday Open 24 hours
Sunday 7 AM–12 AM

Most venues show the grounds by appointment and close the calendar on event days — book a tour rather than dropping in.

The setting

The style of The Barn on Gray House Farm in couples' own words — pulled from their reviews and the venue's own info, not guessed from the photos.

🌊 Waterside 4 mentions

“We loved being off the main road and tucked away in the trees by Lake Fort Gibson.”

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Outdoor Ceremony 2 mentions

“We had our ceremony outside on the front lawn which made for wonderful photos and memories.”

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Amenities couples mention

Amenities couples name in their reviews of The Barn on Gray House Farm — the fastest way to tell what the venue actually offers before you drive out for a tour.

🛏️ On-Site Lodging 2 mentions

“Having the availability of lodging next door was a huge bonus and helped tremendously with all of our weekend activities .”

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Outdoor Ceremony Site 2 mentions

“We had our ceremony outside on the front lawn which made for wonderful photos and memories.”

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🌊 Pond or Lake 4 mentions

“We loved being off the main road and tucked away in the trees by Lake Fort Gibson.”

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⛰️ Scenic Views 2 mentions

“We had an outdoor wedding at sunset with an indoor reception.”

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Amenity mentions are mined from reviews and the venue's own info — they tell you what couples found on the grounds, not what's included in every package. Confirm what comes with your date when you tour.

What couples say again and again

The things reviewers bring up again and again across 101 Google reviews — with their own words as proof.

stunning venue & grounds 31 mentions

“It was so beautiful, perfect size and the owners were exceptional at responding in a timely manner!”

🤝 owners who go above & beyond 2 mentions

“The owners are so kind and have an amazing staff that helped with all our questions and concerns.”

📋 day-of coordination 4 mentions

“The staff was super responsive and helpful with everything we needed leading up to our event and the day of.”

📸 photo-perfect backdrops 2 mentions

“My daughter's wedding turnout out beautiful with this venue as the backdrop.”

💵 great value 3 mentions

“Great price point and lots of nearby Airbnbs made our wedding weekend perfect!”

From the reviews

Reserving at The Barn on Gray House Farm so was simple and had a quick response. We picked a date, she emailed the details and we got everything set up and payment made. We booked for a babyshower and unexpectedly the day before the shower, mom to be, went into labor 7 weeks early.

★★★★★ — Kayla, Aug 2023

The Barn on Gray House Farm Venue was perfect for our wedding! From the first time I saw the venue I knew it was going to be the one. We also booked the Lodge for our out of town family and wedding party to stay with us. The owners were quick to respond during our planning and gave us many helpful tips.

★★★★★ — Kayla, Nov 2024

We thoroughly enjoyed and appreciated having our June wedding at The Barn on Gray House Farm. The venue provided tables and inside and outside chairs as well as some rustic barrels to help decorate. We liked the kitchen area for holding and preparing food.

★★★★★ — Hailey, Jul 2024

the barn on gray house farm is absolutely perfect! booking was so easy and the owners are so fast to answer every question we had! their prices are the very best, and payments were beyond easy to set up!

★★★★★ — Lexi, Apr 2026

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Getting married at The Barn on Gray House Farm

The Barn on Gray House Farm comes up for weddings — confirmed on their own site. Two things make the tour worth the drive. First, see it at the time of day you'd actually get married — a barn that glows at golden hour can feel very different at noon, and you'll want to walk the path your guests take from parking to ceremony to reception. Second, bring your real questions: the rain plan (where does the ceremony move?), the catering and bar policy, the music curfew, and exactly what's included with the rental — tables, chairs, setup, and teardown are where quotes quietly diverge. Popular dates at barn venues book 12–18 months out, so if the tour feels right, ask what's open in your season before you leave.

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Corporate events & private parties at The Barn on Gray House Farm

Reviews and the venue's own info mention corporate events, retreats, or private parties at The Barn on Gray House Farm — barn venues often have real weekday availability since weddings claim the weekends. A quick call answers the three things that matter: weekday and off-season rates, whether the space works for your headcount and A/V needs, and what catering is allowed. If your event lands on a Friday or Saturday in wedding season, ask early.

Where to find The Barn on Gray House Farm

19623 OK-80, Hulbert, OK74441

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