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Gray House Farm

4.7 ★★★★★ 17 Google reviews · Barn wedding venue in Hulbert, Oklahoma

Weddings On-site lodging Elopements

Plan your tour

  • Lodging on-site lodging comes up in reviews and the venue's own info — ask how many beds and whether the wedding-night stay is included
  • Phone (918) 383-0660
  • Website grayhousebarn.com — most venues book tours right on their site

The setting

The style of Gray House Farm in couples' own words — pulled from their reviews and the venue's own info, not guessed from the photos.

🪵 Rustic 2 mentions

“While the venue itself is a charming, freshly built metal barn with a rustic feel, the real magic lies in the hidden surprise that the owners have thoughtfully curated.”

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🌊 Waterside 11 mentions

“If you are looking for a great place to stay while enjoying the lake or going to float the river, this is the place you should choose!”

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Amenities couples mention

Amenities couples name in their reviews of Gray House Farm — the fastest way to tell what the venue actually offers before you drive out for a tour.

🛏️ On-Site Lodging 2 mentions

“We absolutely loved the cabin and the area surrounding it.”

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Outdoor Ceremony Site

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🌊 Pond or Lake 10 mentions

“If you are looking for a great place to stay while enjoying the lake or going to float the river, this is the place you should choose!”

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Amenity mentions are mined from reviews and the venue's own info — they tell you what couples found on the grounds, not what's included in every package. Confirm what comes with your date when you tour.

What couples say again and again

The things reviewers bring up again and again across 17 Google reviews — with their own words as proof.

🧹 spotless & well-kept 3 mentions

“Great place, very clean and quiet, short walk to lakes edge, where we rented the canoe, saw lots of wildlife, highly recommend, can't wait to come back in the fall.”

From the reviews

Attending an event at "The Barn", this brand new wedding venue next to Fort Gibson Lake was a delightful experience! While the venue itself is a charming, freshly built metal barn with a rustic feel, the real magic lies in the hidden surprise that the owners have thoughtfully curated.

★★★★★ — Bob, Aug 2023

I have stayed at all of the Gray House Farm properties through the years. It has always been a great experience for me and my family, which is why I was so happy to see The Barn being finished. I used The Barn for my senior pictures and they came out great.

★★★★★ — Nikolas, Jan 2023

Our group of 9 absolutely loved staying in the Farm House. Everything was clean, orderly, and accommodating. Everyone enjoyed the many amenities of this house. We have stayed a lot of places, but this one tops the list. A great house for a family vacation, friend trip, or just a getaway.

★★★★★ — Shelby, Jul 2019

I just took my 16 year old son here I was astonished that I found something so perfect for us that was actually affordable. We absolutely loved the cabin and the area surrounding it. Clean, comfortable cozy lacking nothing .the host is amazing .

★★★★★ — Brandy, Nov 2024

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Getting married at Gray House Farm

Gray House Farm comes up for weddings — confirmed on their own site. Two things make the tour worth the drive. First, see it at the time of day you'd actually get married — a barn that glows at golden hour can feel very different at noon, and you'll want to walk the path your guests take from parking to ceremony to reception. Second, bring your real questions: the rain plan (where does the ceremony move?), the catering and bar policy, the music curfew, and exactly what's included with the rental — tables, chairs, setup, and teardown are where quotes quietly diverge. Popular dates at barn venues book 12–18 months out, so if the tour feels right, ask what's open in your season before you leave.

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Where to find Gray House Farm

19398 OK-80, Hulbert, OK74441

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Listing verified July 2026 from public business records and couples' reviews. Something out of date? Report a correction. Own this venue? Claim your listing — it's free.