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His & Hers Farm

5 ★★★★★ 76 Google reviews · Barn wedding venue in Alstead, New Hampshire

Weddings On-site lodging

Plan your tour

  • Lodging on-site lodging comes up in reviews and the venue's own info — ask how many beds and whether the wedding-night stay is included
  • Phone +1 716-440-5384
  • Website hisandhersfarm.com — most venues book tours right on their site

The setting

The style of His & Hers Farm in couples' own words — pulled from their reviews and the venue's own info, not guessed from the photos.

🪵 Rustic 3 mentions

“The decor in each room works so well and feels like a personalized hotel with country charm!”

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🏛️ Historic Barn 3 mentions

“They are also launching the Big Red Barn as a historic wedding venue, and as a wedding planner, I know this property will be incredibly special for future H&H couples.”

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🌊 Waterside 2 mentions

“My room was comfy, private, and super quiet, and I fell asleep to the sound of the nearby river.”

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🌸 Gardens & Grounds 5 mentions

“The barn and grounds are beautiful, I could see how it would be perfect for a wedding or other events you may want to have.”

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Amenities couples mention

Amenities couples name in their reviews of His & Hers Farm — the fastest way to tell what the venue actually offers before you drive out for a tour.

🛏️ On-Site Lodging 2 mentions

“i could type for days about how wonderful this venue and guest house is.”

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Amenity mentions are mined from reviews and the venue's own info — they tell you what couples found on the grounds, not what's included in every package. Confirm what comes with your date when you tour.

What couples say again and again

The things reviewers bring up again and again across 76 Google reviews — with their own words as proof.

stunning venue & grounds 20 mentions

“We enjoyed our conversations with them, loved on their two pups Jamison & Malibu, & felt refreshed & invigorated by the beautiful accommodations & environment.”

🤝 owners who go above & beyond 2 mentions

“They went above and beyond, providing helpful recommendations for local activities and dining options, while ensuring we had everything we needed for a relaxing stay.”

🧹 spotless & well-kept 5 mentions

“The rooms were spotless, beautifully decorated, and thoughtfully appointed with all the comforts of home.”

From the reviews

You could not ask for a more idyllic setting for a gathering or wedding than His and Her Farms. The garden was stunning, the grounds were well manicured and beautiful, the field was mowed for camping.

★★★★★ — Marie, Aug 2022

My Partner and I traveled to His & Hers Farm for my brothers wedding and also had the pleasure of staying at the property. Our room was big and the bed was really comfortable. All of the bedrooms have an ensuite bathroom and there are multiple balconies to sit and enjoy the countryside.

★★★★★ — Tim, Aug 2022

i could type for days about how wonderful this venue and guest house is. His & Hers is the best around and there is truly nothing like it!! Wendy and Dean have perfected the charm of the of the guest house. Not only does it feel cozy and comfortable, but it feels like home. You will never want to leave!

★★★★★ — Emma, Jul 2021

His and Hers Farm is an absolute dream and there are so many reasons why we decided on this venue for our wedding. To name a few: Wendy and Dean were so welcoming and were there for anything we needed but also gave us space to enjoy our day. Amazing owners who make you feel so comfortable!

★★★★★ — Megan, Oct 2024

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Getting married at His & Hers Farm

His & Hers Farm comes up for weddings — confirmed on their own site. Two things make the tour worth the drive. First, see it at the time of day you'd actually get married — a barn that glows at golden hour can feel very different at noon, and you'll want to walk the path your guests take from parking to ceremony to reception. Second, bring your real questions: the rain plan (where does the ceremony move?), the catering and bar policy, the music curfew, and exactly what's included with the rental — tables, chairs, setup, and teardown are where quotes quietly diverge. Popular dates at barn venues book 12–18 months out, so if the tour feels right, ask what's open in your season before you leave.

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Where to find His & Hers Farm

561 NH-123A, Alstead, NH03602

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